I wish people were more open with each other.
If you want to give me mixed signals or a list of options that’s fine - I will act upon it. If you don’t get the response you desired, fair enough - I think it would have made more sense to be more direct in the first instance but maybe you like to be spontaneous.
But what you shouldn’t do is, in the light of the fact that you could even just possibly be leading me on, is take so long to get back to me. If you want it, act fast because the flames are damn near dying. Otherwise tell me you don’t so I can move on, I do have standards you know.